Questioning Everday Life.

Men in the Workplace.

Posted in Women by Stacy Litz on October 31, 2008

I’ve been having some trouble coping with being the only girl at the front desk (for the most part) here at the IRT in Korman.

I didn’t really expect this, I only thought I’d be adored and loved by all the desperate, nerdy guys, per usual.

Well, that’s still the case.  But there’s something different going on — involving those who I consider to be boys as opposed to men.

Examples:

One new co-op works here with me.  I’m guessing he’s 19.  Every day he walks in he greets the male that works here.  I don’t get a greeting.  Is he scared of me or . . .  what?  If I was a fellow “bro” I’d get greeted!

A “customer” comes in.  Stares at me for a good ten seconds.  Asks if I can help him.  Yes, duh, I pretty much say.  Then he hands his computer to a male coworker.

Everyone’s talking about something involving computers.  I know exactly what they’re talking about.  But I am not addressed in the conversation at all because I am a girl.

“Hey _____, do you know how to do this?”  _____ is a male worker.  ”Do you know how to find the thingamajig, _____?”  WTF.  You could ask me.  I’m sitting next to you and I know the answer.

You get it.  Sucks.  I could be a bitch and stand up to it, but then I’m a bitch.  I’m going to have to start wearing a female symbol flag on the side of my arm and combat boots.  FEM NAZI!